We all carry an inner wound that is revealed throughout Chiron in our Natal Charts. It can be a painful experience, but it also can teach us how to be stronger by transforming the pain into a healing gift.
If your Chiron is in Aries, then you should continue reading this article. We will help you understand the meaning and show you how to heal your wounds.
After all, Chiron is present in our Chart for a reason, and here we discover that…
Chiron In Aries – The Wound Of Worthiness
Wounds That Come From Feeling Unworthy
If you have Chiron in Aries, it means the core of your pain comes from a feeling of worthlessness. Very often you carry the pressure of being the best you can be.
This doesn’t come as a surprise since Aries is a fire sign, ruled by Mars, and the very first sign in the Zodiac. In ancient mythology, Mars was the god of war, and in astrology, this planet represents our drive, passion, energy, and ambition.
Chiron in Aries is the most difficult, yet significant Chiron placement.
Although all Chiron placements are painful and disturbing, Astrology considers Chiron in Aries one of the most challenging and difficult placements. The reason for this is because it is directly related to who you are as a person. It is the most personal and intimate wound you carry with you. However, this is quite an important Chiron as it teaches you to be confident, brave, bold, and daring in life, just as Aries is.
Chiron in Aries is best explained when we look at people born in this sign. They are extremely brave, confident, and fearless, but Chiron in Aries is the exact opposite of that. Those with this placement of Chiron frequently feel that they are failing themself in life or the people close to them.
They feel extreme pain that comes from feeling that somehow something is wrong with them and feel unworthy of love, success, or any other achievement in life. Their self-confidence is very low and they believe that they are not enough. That feeling can be very exhausting and devastating.
Feeling Lost And Uncentered
With Chiron in Aries, there is a constant battle in you to convince yourself that you too have an equal chance for success in life like everybody else around you.
When your self-confidence lowers you tend to believe that while everyone moves ahead with their life, you somehow are still standing in one place, without making any progress.
Often you might feel unfocused, uncentered, and without a feeling of belonging. You even might convince yourself that you being here, born in this life was somehow a mistake.
These thoughts tend to damage a big part of your soul and bring sorrow and sadness into your life. The pain from living in such darkness can at times be unbearing.
Pain From Self-Doubt
Because your Chiron in Aries often tends to make you feel insufficient, you doubt yourself, your talents, and your abilities. This is why you are intensely influenced by others, and often taken advantage of.
Your energy drains from trying so hard to please people, and you intensify your pain by outing your needs always in second place.
You frequently have toxic relationships because your extreme desire to be embraced and get even the smallest bit of praise forbids you to see that they are using you and taking you for granted.
Making Others Happy At Your Own Expense.
The reason why at times you can’t feel true happiness is because you don’t make any, at least not for yourself.
Yes, you laugh and smile when you make people happy, but it is often at your expense. Being influenced by your Chiron wound you constantly look for the purpose of your existence, but it is often misinterpreted by you.
You making other people happy, while you suffer is not why you are here on earth. That is not your purpose and the pain through Chiron in Aries is teaching you exactly that.
If You Ignore Your Chiron Pain You Can Become Selfish And Aggressive
People with Chiron in Aries can at times ignore their pain and choose to believe that this is the way their life should be.
Alternatively, it can turn you into a bitter person, awake aggression in you, and make you selfish at a later age. You would still continue feeling unworthy, but this time the whole focus will be on you, trying to satisfy only your needs.
Your pain from people that got the advantage of your kindness when you were younger can cause an opposite reaction, and now instead of working on your relationships, you choose to be isolated from people, trying to “fix” the pain.
This process only continues to open new wounds for you.
How To Heal Chiron In Aries?
It is a healing process that wouldn’t be easy or simple.
People with Chiron in Aries are very resilient, so they would rather choose to suffer in silence than speak about it.
They tend to avoid talking about their pain at all costs, which is why it is quite hard to tap into the healing gifts of Chiron in Aries.
Understanding that going back and facing the pain is actually moving forward in life is how their wounds can be healed and transformed into healing gifts.
Chiron Healing Gifts
Once we accept to face our pain and fight the darkness that keeps pulling us down, we learn and we grow.
Once what was our Chiron pain, now becomes our strength and powerful healing gift to help ourselves and the people around us.
Failing, But Getting Up Stronger Than Ever
Failing and downs in life are an inevitable part of life. You can’t have success if you don’t fail at first. This is something people with Chiron in Aries understand the best. Once you heal your fear from failing you are ready to fail a thousand times so you would succeed that one time.
And this is the lesson you teach people who also fear failing. We are not perfect, neither should we be.
We are supposed to make mistakes and fail, but the goal is to get up and continue fighting for our dreams. This fierce energy to never give up and always believe in yourself is your healing gift.
Understanding You Are Enough!
Building your self-confidence is a lifetime process. It comes with experience throughout our maturity, so as much you hurt, that much you learn to value yourself and appreciate the talents you have to offer to this world.
You never stop learning, discovering, and working on yourself, because you know how important it is to always make sure to be the best version you can be and never let you or people around you doubt that.
This is the most important healing gift you have to share with generations younger and less experienced than you.
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