• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
TheFab20s logo
  • Lifestyle
    • Nails
    • Bullet Journal
    • Good Reads
    • Fitness
  • Relationships
  • Astrology
  • Blogging
    • Start A Blog
    • Income Reports
    • Pinterest Templates
    • Blogging Course
menu icon
go to homepage
search icon
Homepage link
  • Adulting
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Blogging
  • About Us
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
  • ×

    5 Clear Signs It’s Time To End Your Relationship

    Sep 3, 2020 · Leave a Comment

    What are the signs a relationship is over?! 
    Is it just a rough-patch or is your relationship doomed….

    Positive relationships are such a blessing.

    However, relationships aren’t easy!


    They take a lot of hard work by two people who really want to be together. 

    But sometimes, simply loving each other isn’t enough and the relationships starts to fizzle out. 

    Although heartbreaking, it’s important to know the signs that it may be time to move on from that relationship.

    Please note, I am in no way, shape, or form, advocating for you to b=dump your boyfriend/girlfriend just because of this list.

    Alllllllll relationships go through rough patches and require attention and two willing partners to work through it, however, sometimes it’s more than that.

    These are the clear signs that a relationship might be coming to a close soon.

    Signs Your Relationship May Be Ending

    1. Poor (or No) Communications

    Everyone knows communication is VITAL in a relationship. 

    Obviously, there are some people who aren’t very communicative, and that’s okay, BUT a complete lack of communication is a big red flag.

    Your partner and you need to be able to talk about things openly.

    Also, were they more open before and now starting to be more closed off? Are the ‘”I Love you’s” sounding more like a chore and less genuine? These are early signs your relationship is in trouble .

    2. Spending Time With Them Feels Like A Chore

    This has to be the BIGGEST sign that you have moved on (emotionally) from your relationship. 

    I remember I was dating a guy once who was a lovely human, however, I started feeling like I ‘had to’ hang out with him because we were dating. I was no longer excited.

    I wanted to be out with my friends more than him.

    Sometimes when that fun, flirty energy goes away and you settle into the relationship, you realize the fit just isn’t right.

    That’s when I knew that relationship was coming to an end.

     

    You May Also Be Interested In: 5 Rules To Make A Long-Distance Relationship Work

    3. You Keep Score

    A relationship isn’t a game, there’s no scorecard.

    But if you find yourself keeping score of arguments, who cleaned what, and comparing gifts (I got you a $300 watch and you got me a notebook?? Really??) you’re headed for trouble.


    4. You're Having The Same Arguments

    Are your arguments repetitions of previous ones?

    Is nothing getting resolved? This goes back to the first point about lack of communication.

    You should be fixing your problems and moving on, not rehashing them ever other day.

    Arguing over the same thing day-in-and-day-out is exhausting for both of you and does a disservice to your relationship. 

    Try and seek outside help. A third-party may be able to see things in a better light.

    You May Also Be Interested In: Gift Ideas For Long-Distance Boyfriend

    5. You Have No Time For Each Other

    Whether it’s conflicting schedules or lack of priorities, not having time for one another is a major reason many relationships fail.

    Relationships need time and commitment, and that’s not possible to do if you’re both always ‘too busy’ for one another.

    Sometimes it’s easier to resolve this problem is one partner takes the lead, like in a FLR, and helps plan events.

    But if it’s just a genuine lack of effort to text, call, and make plans; it’s time to move on.

     

    P.S. Although we’re talking about romantic relationships here, this also applies to ending friendships that are toxic or no longer helping you grow.

    Some platonic relationships also need a breakup even if they can hurt just as much (if not more) than romantic breakups at times.

    Don’t forget to like, pin, and share me!

    What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here are some clear red flags that it may be time to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Don’t date or stay in a relationship if it has become toxic or unfulfilling for you and your SO. #relationships #dating

    Relationships

    About Claudia Torres

    A recovering perfectionist who's obsessed with good food, traveling, and bad tv shows (looking at you, Portlandia!).
    In my free time, you can find me reading, running my cats Tinder profile, or trying out a new fitness class. You can find me on Instagram

    Reader Interactions

    Leave a Reply Cancel reply

    You must be logged in to post a comment.

    Primary Sidebar

    Personal development. Healthy habits. Genius life & organization hacks. Fresh beauty ideas. Better mental health. Smarter relationships. Empowered living. You can have it all! Yes, YOU!

    Popular

    • 35 Minimalist Bullet Journal Spreads You Have To Try Right Now
    • He Hasn’t Texted Me In A Week. Should I Text Him?
    • 69 Fun & Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy
    • 8 Books about self love to heal your soul. These are the best books on learning to love. Best Books on self compassion and forgiveness. Learn to let yourself off the hook. Best books to learn about yourself. These self help books are a must read for woman in their 20s. #books #bookstoread #selflove
      8 Books About Self-Love To Transform Your Mental Health

    AMAZON ASSOCIATES DISCLOSURE:

    TheFab20s is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com

    • About
    • Contact
    • Advertise
    • Disclosure Policy
    • Privacy Policy

    Copyright © 2023 TheFab20s on the Seasoned Pro Theme