Looking to take your sex life to the next level? Spice things up with a position that’s sure to please: riding a guy.
Not only does it allow for deeper penetration and increased intimacy, but it can be enjoyable for both partners.
But before you saddle up, communication is key. Once you’re ready, straddle your partner’s hips and slowly lower yourself onto their penis.
Experiment with different angles and movements to find what feels best for both of you.
Remember to prioritize your own pleasure and communicate with your partner.
Trying new positions should be fun and sexy for both of you, but if you are inexperienced, or just want to get better…
We’ve got you covered with straight to the point tips to make you a PRO in bed.
How To Ride A Guy Like A Pro
Riding a guy can be an incredibly intimate and enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.
However, it can also be a bit intimidating if you’re not sure what you’re doing.
Remember, the most important thing is to enjoy yourself and not feel so much pressure to ‘perform.’
Here are some of the best tips to ride your man like a pro…
When it comes to riding a guy, confidence is key.
You need to take control of the situation and show your partner that you know what you’re doing. Even if you’re faking it til you make it!
Don’t be afraid to take the lead and guide your partner’s movements with your hips.
If you want to have the best sex, you have to be ready to get on top and take the lead.
Practice makes perfect here. You likely won’t feel comfortable taking control of the situations at first, but that’s okay!
Just start by slowly kissing him, kiss his neck, body, and get on top of him.
Take things slow… Which brings us to…
Take It Slow
Before you start riding, you’re going to want to take it slow.
Get in bed, do a lot (a LOT!) of foreplay, and take your time,
Men love being teased and it feels good when you stretch out the foreplay for awhile.
Maintaining a slow and steady pace can enhance the build-up of tension, allowing you to experience sensations more intensely.
Read Next: 21 Things Guys Like In Bed But Won’t Ask For
Finding The Rhythm
To really get into the groove of riding your guy, you need to find your rhythm.
Start off slow and gradually build up speed as you get more comfortable.
Picking up the pace can help your aroused partner reach climax. It is important to ensure that both you and your partner are comfortable with the chosen rhythm.
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and adjust your movements accordingly.
Exploring Different Positions
There are many different positions you can try when riding your guy.
Experiment with different angles and depths to find what feels best for both you and your partner.
Don’t be afraid to switch things up and try something new.
There is more than one ‘woman on top’ position.
You can have the standard one, or reverse-cowgirl, or mix it up with one leg up which gives you more control over the rhythm and depth.
Keep Eye Contact During the Ride
If you’re struggling to impress in the bedroom, it might be because you’re overlooking a crucial factor: the emotional connection between you and your partner.
Many people believe that the key to successful lovemaking lies solely in the physical motions and positions. However, this is not entirely true.
It’s equally important to create a memorable experience by building an emotional bond with your partner.
Maintaining intense eye contact with your partner can help to deepen the intimacy of the experience.
It can also help you to read your partner’s reactions and adjust your movements accordingly.
Try to hold your partner’s gaze as you move. Let them see how much pleasure you’re experiencing. This will undoubtedly turn them on even more.
As humans, we are highly visual creatures, and we often take cues from watching others.
Maintaining eye contact not only enhances the sexual experience but also helps you to synchronize with your partner’s preferences.
Touch Him All Over
You have hands! Use them.
Guy love being touched in all the right places, just like woman.
When the women is on top, she has full control over the situation and her orgasm.
You can kiss his neck, touch his balls, caress his body… Nothing is off limits (unless there’s something he doesn’t like, then respect that.)
When you ride a guy, you sometimes don’t know what to do with your hands.
I promise you, it will feel good for both of you if you start touching him all over.
Read Next: Why Do I Want To Bite My Boyfriend?
Try New Motions
Don’t be afraid to mix things up and try new motions when riding your guy.
While it’s perfectly fine to stick to the traditional up-and-down motion or a simple rhythm that you and your partner are comfortable with, it’s also essential to be open to experimenting and trying new things.
For example, when you’re riding, you can switch things up by making circular motions, taking control of the thrusting, or even trying out some twerking.
The key to trying different motions is to add variety to your lovemaking.
By doing so, you’ll be able to discover what excites your partner the most and spice up the experience with new sensations.
This will undoubtedly enhance the pleasure for both you and your partner.
You can try grinding, bouncing, or even twerking to find what feels best for you and your partner.
All of these things will feel immensely pleasurable for you and him. It will likely drive your man crazy when you mix up the motions and tempo!
Don’t forget to touch yourself while you’re riding your guy.
While the previous tips have mainly focused on how to ride your man and pleasure him, it’s important to remember that you deserve pleasure too.
You can enhance your own pleasure while doing the work by stimulating yourself. This will help you stay aroused and engaged in the moment.
Moreover, it will indirectly stimulate your partner as well, as they’ll be turned on by seeing how much you’re enjoying yourself.
Touching yourself during the act will not only enhance your own pleasure but also provide great visual stimulation for your partner.
This can help to increase your own pleasure and show your partner how turned on you are.
Get The Hair Out Of Your Face
When figuring out how to ride a guy, getting the hair out of your face is actually huge!
Men are incredibly visual.
They’ll want to see your face while you’re riding them.
And how are you going to maintain eye contact if you have your gorgeous locks all over?
It’s easy to sometimes get into a position and enjoy the ride, but the visuals are just as important for the man than the physical.
Guys find it so sexy to be able to look at you while you are on top.
Don’t Feel Too Pressured
Remember, riding a guy should be a fun and enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.
Making love is an art form, and while pleasuring your boyfriend by riding him may require some effort, it’s essential to get into the flow of the moment.
If you spend the entire time on top of your man, worrying about whether you’re doing it right, how you look, or how you can improve in bed, you won’t be able to fully enjoy the experience.
It’s crucial to ease yourself into the process and communicate with your partner if you feel pressured about your performance.
This will help you receive reassurance and possibly alleviate your stress.
Never put too much pressure on yourself to perform perfectly. Just relax and enjoy the moment.
We already touched on reverse cowgirl a little, but it’s such a great position and way to mix things up.
If you want to ride your man properly, but don’t want to do the same position over and over again (yawn,) try the reverse cowgirl at some point.
If you’re familiar with the regular cowgirl position, which involves facing your partner and straddling them with a knee on either side of their hips, then you already know how to do the reverse cowgirl.
It’s simply a matter of flipping it and reversing it.
This is a great position that allows you to get the right angle and have more control over the ride.
There Is Nothing Sexier Than a Woman Riding a Man With Confidence
Confidence baby! If you’re going to do all the work, you may as well own it.
Confidence is key when it comes to riding a guy. Hell, confidence is key to almost everything in life.
When you take control and show your partner that you know what you’re doing, it can be incredibly sexy and intimate.
So don’t be afraid to let go and enjoy the ride.
Do what feels good and pleasurable for yourself and I can almost guarantee he will be into it as well.
Feeling good in your body is important. I know a lot of woman get insecure about their body, especially during sex.
But trust me, if you are having sex with a guy, he is extremely excited about it.
he isn’t thinking about your cellulite, tummy, or whatever.
You are SEXY and need to remember that. Own you body. Own your confidence.