Oh Valentines Day. There is so much self-imposed stress associated with this holiday. But why?!
It’s just a fun, romantic day to spend with someone you fancy. Maybe you are interested in asking someone out on Valentines Day, but don’t know how to go about it or when to do it… We’ve got you covered…
When Do You Ask Someone To Be Your Valentine
Tthe best time to ask someone to be your Valentine is at least a week before Valentines Day. This gives you enough time to plan for the date and isn’t so last minute that someone else beats you to it.
If you decide to wait a day or two before the 14th, you risk them being asked by someone else or having other plans.
How Do You Ask Someone To Be Your Valentine?
The best way to ask someone to be your Valentine is directly. It can be intimidating coming right out and asking ‘will you be my Valentine?’ but if they like you, they will be very flattered and find it endearing.
You can also ask in a much less direct way if just thinking of asking someone to be your Valentine makes you break out into a cold sweat.
You can ask your crush if they have plans for the 14th. If they say they don’t have plans you can ask how they’d feel about going out on a date with you.
Remember, confidence is the most attractive quality in a person! Don’t be shy or scared of rejection.
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Are You Dating If You Ask Someone To Be Your Valentine?
No, technically not.
Asking someone out on Valentines day is just a date and doesn’t mean you’re necessarily dating. And it certainly doesn’t mean you’re exclusive.
A date is just a date. A lot of people put a lot of pressure around February 14th but it’s completely unnecessary and self-imposed.
It should just be a fun night out with someone you like, don’t get too in your head about it.
Is It A Good Idea To Ask Someone Out On Valentine’s Day?
Even though I said it’s good to ask a week ahead to be safe, it’s never too late to ask someone to be your Valentine.
I am under the belief that it’s better to regret the things we’ve done than they things we didn’t do. So why not take the risk of asking someone out on Valentines?
Worst thing that could happen is they say ‘No’ and now you know. No need to rummage through that scenario in your head anymore.
If you do ask someone out on Valentines Day, make sure you have some plans for the evening. Since it is last minute, it can be hard to make reservations.
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